Conversations on the Journey
Every person’s journey is different, from trauma to healing, from betrayal to finding a way to trust again. On days there were bus delays due to weather, my mother, sister and I used to sit in the early morning hours, and talk over hot tea–one of my few and cherished memories of us together.
Consider this an invitation for you to join me in our own tea and conversation, and explore not only the things that hurt us and the things that heal, but the hurting in our world and our hope for it.
Are you ready? Pull up a chair and make yourself comfortable. I’ll put the kettle on.
~ demian
I am SO excited to share that I’ve taken the plunge, and am in the process of moving my writings to my Substack puplication, Silent No More, a newsletter addressing gaslighting, grooming, narcissistic abuse, and emotional exploitation. Of course, the focus will be on healing from these, and other forms, of manipulative and sexual abuse. […]
Wonton spoon: Warmth, mom, cold snowy days, steam wafting up from the bowl to greet the nose of hungry, happy children. Playing outside, the crunch of snow between our eager mittened hands pressing it into mischievous ball shape. Sharp air inhaled into warm lungs, the shock of it startling, delighting me. I’m alive! I exist! […]
Photo by Amy Treasure What’s the worst thing that happened to me? Can I say abuse, betrayal of trust, sexual violence, ravaged childhood? Was it my brother’s descent into insanity, my mother’s psychosis, my father’s predator entitlement? God not answering my prayers? That I needed to pray, at all… like that? Was it the […]
Originally written on 7/3/2020, revised and updated 2/23/23. Desecration Tonight, my heart is breaking as I think of the desecration of the Black Hills, yet again, specifically the mountain that non-Indigenous people call, “Mt Rushmore”. The assault against this sacred mountain this time is in the form of massive numbers of people, fireworks and Trump, […]
More and more it seems that mountain is getting steeper and steeper, and life is just sliding backwards, our reality, our progress, even our minds. What’s alarming is not just the reoccurring tragedies of mass shootings in the United States, the threat of fascism, violence, assaults against progressive rights and the environment but the impact […]
We Saw It Coming The writing has been on the wall for quite a while. And yet, when Roe v. Wade was overturned, it hit so many of us like a brick, the shock of it as if it came out of the blue. Maybe not because we didn’t see the signs, but because we […]
I used to think my mother’s story was time and culture specific, and most certainly in relation to America, a unique experience. But I was wrong. I’m beginning to understand not only how much a part her society played in her trauma, but how widespread the practice of sacrificing children for an agenda is in […]
[updated 7/01/20] What do I mean when I say, the healing journey? A journey takes us from “here” to “there”. On a healing journey, “there”, is a state of being, arising from growth and change that allows us to live our lives as authentically and consciously as possible. Now, what that looks like and how […]
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